Wedding Judgement Day- Northern California Wedding

I’m not sure if you heard, but last weekend, on April 21st, the “Rapture” was supposed to occur. Judgment Day. The end of modern times. On the same day, I received another prophetic, though slightly less dooms-day-ish email. It read, “Your wedding is in 5 months.” As I’m sitting here typing today, I guess I should continue planning. Whew. Five months is a pretty tangible time frame. We’re getting to the “You better be getting thing done,” phase. Fortunately, we’re looking pretty good. We have menswear and stationary left in the big picture, and the rest is in the details. Things like table décor to go with the flowers, making wedding favors, and organizing seating charts are what I have left to tackle. The final walk through on our reception site construction is scheduled for next week. I actually feel pretty calm about how the progress of things are going

Most of my stress comes from the fact that I’m not stressed about wedding planning, and it seems like maybe I should be. Shouldn’t I be sweating the details? Shouldn’t I be worried about what color napkins to use and herding all our groomsmen to the same place to get fitted for the same suit? I’m just… not. Well. I wasn’t. Until I heard the latest update on the end of mankind as we know it. The Rapture has been rescheduled from its original broadcasted time to the EXACT day of our wedding. And really, I can still only reply: What better way to celebrate than with the man I want to spend the rest of my time here on earth while surrounded by family and friends?

 

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How to make your own quickie photo booth- Northern California wedding blogger- Amber

We made our photo booth for our Engagement party in about twenty minutes with materials we had on hand. As I said before, it was by no means perfect technologically, but for the memory/fun factor it was one of the BEST things we did at the party.

We started by cleaning out the utility closet in my moms entry way. We then hung curtains from some old spring rods on the three walls of the closet. This isn’t required, but it did cover up the plugs and plumbing that happened to be in that closet. We then took a strand of rope lights and hung them around the inside of the doorway to the closet. This helped prevent shadows from the overhead light. We then put two kitchen stools in the closet that were high enough to keep everyone from seeming like they were seated on the floor. We put a basket with a bunch of props consisting of old Halloween costumes and dollar store finds next to the door for people to forage through.

The most difficult part was the camera set-up. Amazingly, my mom’s camera has a setting that allows you to set it on a self timer that takes X number of pictures of X number of seconds. We set it to take 3 photos over 6 seconds, but you could do 5 pics over 15 seconds or 4 over 20, or lots of combos. I highly recommend checking out the rarely used settings on your little point and shoot digital camera. My mom’s is a no frills Canon Powershot that we placed on a tripod with easy to follow directions written out nearby.

And there you have it, a photo booth in twenty minutes or less. The biggest issue we had was the tripod kept getting moved from the right vantage point for keeping the door frame out of the photos, but that could easily have been solved by placing some tape on the floors that marked where the tripod should stand. The fact that we got tons of great photos of most of our guests far out ways the technological hiccups and photographic imperfections.

 

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The Engagement Party- Real Wedding Blogger- Amber!

We finally had our engagement party.  It was SO FUN! As you may remember we had given our party a theme of “The Hangover”, and boy did our family and friends take it and run. My Aunts and Grandmother made food and lent us furniture. My Dad some how came up with an honest-to-goodness blackjack table for people to play blackjack at and some of Will’s guy friends even made themselves shirts with quotes directly from the movie!

My mother and I spent the few days leading up to the party decorating, arranging furniture, and COOKING! Among the amazing culinary delights were Man Purse Empanadas, from scratch mini cupcakes in three different flavors, and margarita flavored jello shots (a sleeper success since they were ALL gone by the end of the night).

The best part of the night, hands down, was the photobooth we set up in one of the closets. People had so much fun! Everybody, from Will’s 14 year old sister to my 80 year old Grandmother had a great time posing with the different props and other family and friends. I had people come up to me and request that there be a photobooth at the wedding because they had so much fun. That makes me so happy.

Here are a few of my favorite photos from the photo booth:



Thank you to everyone who travelled from near and far (Canada!) to make this weekend special. I can’t wait for the wedding!

 

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Paper Doily Project Round-Up

Have you checked out the post by Amber about her tea staining paper doily adventures? Fun and easy!  She was nice enough to send over a round up of projects involving paper doilies.

Ruffled Blog- Ruffled paper doily lanterns

Project Wedding Blog- Paper Lace Garland

Ruffled Blog-Paper Doily cones

Martha Stewart- Paper doily chandelier

Ruffled Blog- Paper Doily Envelope

Emmaline Bride Blog- Paper Doily Pom-Poms

Thanks Amber for all the inspiration!

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How to Make Tea Stained Paper Doilies- Bride Blogger, Amber

If you are anything like me, you love DIY projects that require very little set-up, and even fewer supplies. If it requires me to special order a part or piece on-line, or make trips to five different stores for the right supplies… it probably isn’t going to happen any time soon. That simple fact is why I love paper projects. Who doesn’t have paper lying around?

Over the weekend I did some experimenting with tea staining. Bright white papers lack personality and seem overly sterile for my tastes, so tea staining gives them just a touch of character for next to nothing. I dyed a bunch of paper doilies I recently picked up (24 for a $1 at the Dollar Store!) to see how different teas might stain different colors. (I have been toying with the idea of using them on the outside of our party crackers.)

I used a bunch of old tea I had gathering dust in my cupboards and brewed up three different batches and one additional bath made of instant espresso. The results were really awesome. I love the different tones I got from each tea bath and playing with the color intensity based on how long I let the doily soak.

Some tips for tea staining doilies:

1. Make it strong! I threw at least 5 bags in a two quart pot at the beginning and then let the water boil down to at least half way down the pot. If you want it even stronger, add more bags or boil it down further.

2. Let the tea cool completely. Patience doesn’t always come easy to me, especially when I’m riding the wave of motivation, but if you start dipping the paper in lukewarm water, the paper just tears and falls apart.

3. Dry the doilies flat between layers of newspaper or paper towel before you hang them. Initially they will be too fragile to hang from a clothes line. As they become more damp and less soaked, they will be stronger and easier to handle.

As you can see I got some great variation in color.

From left to right: Unstained doily, Rooibus Spice Tea, Espresso, Peppermint Tea, and Lemon.

My favorites are the pink tones from the lemon tea, and the burnt edge effect the espresso bath gave. Can you think of any other teas that might give me other color?

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Chocolat Inspired Engagement Shoot- Sacramento Wedding Photography

Bringing you some extra special, hot and spicy eye candy today!  The style of Jared and Ashleigh’s engagement shoot was based on the movie Chocolat. Styled and coordinated by Kate Miller Events, photographed by True Love Photo and floral styling by Flourish.***

Ashleigh and Jared are getting married this summer.  They are an adorable couple and perfect for this engagement shoot.

Beautiful engagement shoots, like this one, are often featured on wedding blogs.  Ever wonder how you could put together one for you and your fiancée?  I will be revealing the secrets of styling this shoot in a series of blog posts coming up soon. We are going to cover styling, Some DIY projects and scheduling of your own amazing engagement session.


I look forward to sharing some wonderful inspiration with you!

*** Kate Miller Events, True Love Photo and Flourish are sponsors of FPW!
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Manly-Man flowers

Every once in a while I hear, “He doesn’t want to wear a boutonniere.  Too girly.”  Seriously.  I makes me want to laugh when someone says wearing a flower will make their man less manly.  All I can think about is Cary Grant.  He was the epitome of suave manliness, urbane class and cutting wit.  And yes, he was often seen wearing a boutonniere.

Wearing a flower on one’s lapel has long been considered the finishing touch to a man’s ensemble.  Rarely are they worn today except on rare occasions.  Formal dances and weddings are the only times most men’s jacket will sport a boutonniere.  Too bad.  Cary made it look so good.

For more information on the history and lore of the boutonniere check out this wonderful book:  The Boutonniere- Style in One’s Lapel

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Quickies- Flash Mob Proposal

This proposal melted even this Hard Hearted Harbinger of Haggis’ heart! Just so sweet. Great find via Every Last Detail.

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Drawing maps to your Northern California Wedding- Real Wedding Blog by Amber

One of the small details one runs into when planning a wedding in an out of the way location is making sure everyone arrives to that location with minimal u-turns and stops at the gas station to ask for directions. While checking the directions given on the usual mapping sites (lets face it, we’ve all been given wrong instructions on how to arrive at our destination) I came across Bing.com Destination Maps.

Just input the address of your event, and Bing will “draw” a map of the area surrounding your event that includes the main roads that will get you there, water features, and a bright red “X” marks the spot. There are several different styles that can be chosen for the map. The maps can then be saved as a jpeg and uploaded on to websites or printed as part of your wedding invitations. So much easier than drawing the map yourself!

All of these maps I drew using the tools on Bing.com to the State Capitol.  These are just some of the styles available.

 

 

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Hiding Two Buck Chuck- Judy Loves It!

Not all of your wedding guests will be oenophiles and expect to be delicately swirling a mouthful of 2007 Opus One as they discuss how lovely you, the bride, looked in your vintage Chantilly lace gown.  The average wedding guest just wants to get their buzz on! In this case, the cost per bottle of wine  becomes important.  Especially when you are trying to quench the thirst of 150 wedding guests.

Enter the famous Two Buck Chuck:

Considered by many a passable wine and good enough to serve at a party without taking the tannin out of your wallet.  Unfortunately, our favorite wine-on-the-cheap has gotten a bad rap even while it continues to win awards.  Keep those eagle-eyed wine snobs from looking down their noses at your wine choices by being sneaky and crafty.  Cover that label with some cute camouflage and no one will be the wiser!

Style Me Pretty

I just love the idea of a pretty scrap of fabric wrapped around the label.  So simple!

True Love Photo

The company, Bottle Your Brand specializes in custom wine labels for weddings and other special events.  With a cost of .89 each for 50 label (price goes down if you order more) and a two day turn around, they can’t be beat!

Hmmmmm…. tasty.  I detect a note of savings with a undercurrent of fun and a piquant of miserly craftiness.

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