The DJ- Sound Image Entertainment- Northern California Real Wedding

When Will and I first decided we were going to have a DJ for our wedding entertainment we asked around for some recommendations. After screening a few “DJ’s” through the phone, we met up withBrandon and Kami from Sound Image Entertainment.

Brandon and Kami with three of their four little boys

We instantly felt comfortable leaving the music in their hands. As a husband and wife team of DJ and Entertainment Coordinator they are extremely organized and genuinely interested in how you envision your wedding. I walked away from our first meeting feeling like we were going to get exactly what we were looking for.

Photo by Justine Ungaro

This last week we had another meeting with Brandon and Kami to start hammering out some details of the day. As the Entertainment Coordinator, Kami walked us through building an itinerary for the rehearsal dinner and the day of the wedding. It includes arrival times for vendors and the wedding party, all the way through cake cutting, toasts, and dancing. It’s a detailed plan, but it’s flexible, which is exactly our style. Both Brandon and Kami helped us figure out where we would need to pick out specific songs for certain events throughout the night, and areas where we could leave it up to them.  They also literally took notes about certain music we wanted to hear or not hear (I have an extreme aversion to the Beastie Boys).  After the meeting Kami sent us a rough copy of the itinerary and a to-do list of music we still need to figure out. It’s all so organized!

Photo by True Love Photo

I’m really looking forward to having them as part of the team of creative and talented people that are going to make our wedding day amazing!

 

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Crochet covered rocks?- Judy Loves It!

These little cuties are adorable!  From Etsy seller: CAPODARCO

What could you do with them at your wedding?

a. Use one at each place setting to weigh down the menu

b. Attach an escort card to one for each guest and display at the entrance to the reception

c. Place a few of them in a satin purse so you can lob one at that bridesmaid that keeps talking about herself or that wedding guest that is getting waaaay too drunk.

d. All of the above

What?  The crochet would soften the blow.

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Balancing wedding planning, career and life

I am by no means an expert at wedding planning in this stage of the game. In fact, I am sure there are lots of lessons still to be learned and there will be plenty of hindsight when all is said and done. What I can do is provide you with some insight that I have gained over the last couple of weeks about planning, delegating and utilizing reliable resources.

A couple of weeks ago I started a new job. With the new job comes 12 hour days and long work weeks. I’m not complaining about the job, in fact I love it, but it has definitely made me use my time more wisely. With less than three months to go, the front seat of an ambulance has become my work space and yesterday, while donating platelets I typed out some emails with one arm.

Due to the long days, I set alarms to remind myself to make phone calls during business hours, or else I find myself playing phone tag with vendors for days on end. Suddenly, all those offers of help are a god-send and releasing control of little details has become a lot easier.

Perhaps, as I write this blog in between calls and paperwork, the new job schedule comes as a blessing in disguise. Relinquishing control of certain aspects of the planning has also released some stress I didn’t even realize I was carrying around. Knowing that my mom is contacting our favorite bakery for a bread order means I don’t have to worry about it, my dad making wine decisions means I don’t have to, and one of my bridesmaids shoe shopping for the wedding party while on a business flight to Minneapolis reduces my decision list by one. Delegating that responsibility allows me to focus on the details that are high on my list, and still have fun with the planning process.

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Reception Site Woes- Northern California Wedding, Amber and Will

Over the last few weeks, I have been trying to get somebody to meet me at our reception venue so that we could check it out post-renovation. I needed some measurements and some reinforcement of my mental map that I’ve created.

Unfortunately, every time I’ve tried, there has been some pressing issue that whomever I was talking with could not get around. “Sorry, the chili cookoff and car show are this weekend.” Or, “Sorry, the contractor still has the keys.”

I understand. It’s okay. There are other schedules beyond the one my wedding
is fitting into.

But here’s the thing, this remodel is supposed to be done. When my mom and I
decided to make a trip up to the hotel this week, we decided to sneak on over
to the building and see what we could see through the windows.

We lucked out and we were able to get in… but this is what we saw.

Not exactly what I was hoping for.

I would not call this finished…

This is where I confess to being a little stressed out about this part of planning our wedding. The reception venue is kind of a major component and at the moment, I don’t have a back up plan.

A tent would totally blow our budget out of the water, as would using the hotel banquet room (not that its big enough). So for the moment, I get to be a squeaky wheel.

I will call people in charge of the building in hopes that they start breathing down the neck of the contractor, and then really hope he gets the hall done in time for my wedding reception.

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Ties and Bow Ties for your Bridal Party

I’m a big fan of the vest and tie look on men. Its looks sharp and, dare I say, sexy. I found these ties a few weeks ago on Etsy (my favorite place to shop these days) from seller Toybreaker.  They would pair great with a solid colored vest. With an awesome variety of unique designs that are both masculine and pretty there is something in the collection for all kinds of wedding themes.

My favorite is this design, called “Beer. Hops, Barley and Wheat” that has a pretty natural design with a Beer theme for the boys.

I love than you can order sets for wedding parties or you can pick a color scheme and have the boys pick their favorite design. They also have an awesome bowtie collection that would add some nice masculine flare to your boys in bows.

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Sparkle Bridal Couture Sacramento, Ca- Judy Loves It!

I am so excited!  I just heard the news, via my Facebook feed, that Sparkle Bridal Couture at 3200 Folsom Blvd. in Sacramento, Ca. is open for business!  From their description on their Facebook page:

“SPARKLE bridal couture is California’s FIRST & ONLY bridal salon specializing in bridal and special occasion size 14-30. Located in the charming neighborhood of East Sacramento, the salon offers brides an exquisite selection of stylish gowns that flatter every curve and bring out your inner SPARKLE.”

How exciting! This has been a long time coming.  Big girls- represent!

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Engagement session- Northern California wedding

I would like to introduce you to our photographer, Charleton Churchill. I stumbled on to his blog when he was just starting out as a full time photographer and I wasn’t even thinking about planning a wedding yet. I have thought from the very beginning that his artistic skills with a camera are amazing and he was the first person we hired when we got engaged.

At the end of January we did our engagement photos, and it such an amazingly fun day. We started out at my Aunt and Uncle’s home in Roseville.  My Uncle has restored a 1950 Mercury that has been in the family since it was purchased. We did tons of photos with the Merc and around the property. We changed outfits and got even more great shots using the gardens and a borrowed tandem bike.

After a couple of hours at the house we drove to downtown Sacramento and took some really fun photos using the background of some of our favorite places. We started at Rick’s Dessert Diner, where Will and I had our first date, and then moved to some of the urban settings that were close to the area where we lived downtown.

Getting our photos back was so exciting. I literally did a little dance in our entry way when the package arrived. I am so excited to have Charleton photographing our wedding and I look forward to having something wonderful to look back on with our children and grandchildren.

 

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Coloma Country Inn Wedding of Roz and Kyle Gold Country wedding

Ask me what I love the most about  Summer and the answer would be- it means it is almost Fall.  Just days away from the fourth of July and here I am wishing for apple cider and crunchy leaves.  That is why I could not resist posting the wedding of Roz and Kyle.

Roz and Kyle’s wedding took place this past October in Coloma, Ca  and it rained.  I think the exact descriptor Beth from True Love Photo used was “buckets”.

I love the pumpkins!  Such a cute and easy idea.  All you have to do is write on a pumpkin when it is immature with a sharp stick or thin knife.  It causes a scar that becomes more apparent as the pumpkin grows.

The town of Coloma, Ca is where the Gold Rush in California started.  It is a charming little town filled with history, adorable homes and vineyards. Coloma Country Inn is a picturesque bed and breakfast with complete with a pond for lovely photos and a tent to hold your reception.

I love the sweet and relaxed florals designed by Visual Impact Floral Design.  Capturing that “just picked” look is deceptively hard.  Kathy and crew at Visual Impact makes itlook easy-peasy.

Coloma Country Inn is just down the street from a couple of quaint churches that date back to the 1800′s.  Because these churches are now part of the California State Parks they are non-demonational.  Which makes them perfect for a couple that wants to personalize their ceremony to their own belief system.  For more info visit here.

Beth with True Love Photo is the master at capturing those happy and relaxed moments that happen between the moments on wedding day.  Don’t tell her I told you- but I think her secret is the crazy noises she makes to get people to laugh.

Mike Regan with Mr. DJ Service made sure no one’s spirits were dampened by the wet weather.

Other amazing Pros that helped make Roz and Kyle’s wedding wonderful:

Jensen Films

Inn-Credible Events

All Seasons All Reasons

True Love Photo and Visual Impact are crazy awesome sponsors of FPW

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Meet our Officiant- Amber, Real Northern California wedding blogger

Really, he isn’t just our officiant he is my uncle first.  My Uncle Michael has been officiating weddings for more than 20 years.  When I was a little girl he preformed my aunt’s wedding in Golden Gate Park.

My Uncle Michael is ordained through The Universal Life Church.  For those of you who are unfamiliar with The Universal Life Church, it is an on-line ministry where anybody is free to become ordained “without intolerance or antiquated dogma”. When my uncle first became ordained it was through the mail.  But now you can become ordained through their website.  Basically, it give the person that is ordained through their church the ability to perform ceremonies such as weddings and baptisms while practicing their own beliefs, whatever they might be.  In California, the rules about who can preform a wedding are pretty lenient.  In some counties you can even get a permit just for the day so you can perform a wedding without becoming ordained.  I appreciate living in a state where the person marrying us can be someone important to us outside of religion.

Will and I were both raised in Catholic homes but neither of us practices at this point in our lives.  Getting married in the Catholic church, taking marriage classes through the church and promising to go to church more often would seem disingenuine and hypocritical to both of us.  That being said, hiring a random officiant off the street seems impersonal and lacks the feeling of family we are hoping for on our wedding day.

I am excited that our wedding will be filled with people we love and appreciate and that are excited for us to start our lives together.  My Uncle Mike knows how to find the balance between a lighthearted ceremony and the seriousness of the commitment Will and I are making to each other.  Best of all, he knows us both personally so the ceremony will not be a cookie cutter speech with our names thrown in.  It will take into account the things that are important to us and be representative of the ideas we have about our relationship and our future together.


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What are you Gawkin’ at? Wedding Gawker- Judy Loves It!

weddinggawker is one of my favorite daily stops on the internets.  From their site:

weddinggawker is a photo gallery that allows you to visually search and discover traditional to modern ideas to inspire your own wedding. We publish photography submitted by wedding bloggers/photographers from around the world. Our editors review submissions daily and choose the highest quality, most beautiful images to showcase.”

What I love about weddinggawker is it is a curated one stop shop for wedding inspiration. Just a quick glance and you can see and click on some of the loveliest images submitted by wedding bloggers and other wedding professionals.


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